I'm gonna lay it all out there now. I promised myself to only write poems about positive things, and I shall. However, I have a few things I need to get off my chest first.
1.If you say you like someone...like them. Playing with emotions is juvenille.
2.Call every once in a while. In fact, texting isn't bad. The point is, stay in touch...Somehow.
3.Communication is crucial for me.
3a.If you don't/can't communicate, don't bother with trying to get to know me.
3b.If you still want to get to know me then you need to work on communication.
4.If you can't do any of the above. I will be upset in some way shape or form. I won't take it out on you. I promise. I will take it out on opposing players on the football pitch.
5.I will make every effort to give you the time and space to do what you need to do. I am very busy as I'm sure you are as well.
6.Further continuance of trying to get to know me without doing ANY of the above will result in me completely shutting you off. I get along better with my ex of two and a half years..She knows how to communicate, therefore I have no ill will towards her.
The key for me is effort. If you can show me that you want to work to make the relationship work, I can and will work with you. If I see no effort, you get no response from me. I refuse to "spin my wheels" while you lolligag. I've been there done that. No more. I made a promise to myself and if you know me, I keep my promises no matter what.
You seem bothered Mr. Nelson. I believe the key is communication as a wise friend once told me. U want this person to change or step it up, but writing on your blog is not the way to get to this someone. I'm sure that once you express what you want to her, she will either understand and change. If not then you deserve much better. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteI've tried to communicate with her but no response is being forth given.
ReplyDeleteAnd I also like to write it out and see if it actually makes sense before I try to say it aloud...to anyone.
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